5 Signs Your Personality Is So Strong It’s Intimidating Others (Never Tolerate #2)

“The lion doesn’t turn around when the small dog barks.” – African Proverb.
Have you been often accused of being intimidating? People might judge you for what you are without knowing about you or your life. Your personality today is a result of the experiences you have gone through in the past. Because of that your attitude towards life has become strong and tough. Others may not like the way you are but that should not bother you. You should not be sorry for who you are.
Marked by tension, your life has seen many ups and downs in your career and relationships. This has transformed you into an independent and stronger person. Therefore you do not easily come off as soft to people anymore.
Sometimes you are misunderstood as rude and mean for the way you behave and react to others. What most people fail to see is your soft side behind this garb of the tough one. People who come across as intimidating are actually kind in nature and have a big heart.
Some common traits that are visible in intimidating personalities are the following:
1. Small talk is annoying – You do not appreciate small talks and neither do you indulge in them quite often. Deep and serious conversations which involve participation of the intellect is something that interests you. Petty conversations concerning the weather or the glamour world do not catch your attention. You are in fact infuriated if someone interrupts you with their small talks.
2. Willful ignorance is not tolerated – You not only have a strong personality but are wise and learned at the same time. You are open-minded and do not entertain someone who is judgmental. Baseless judgement come from being ignorant. One way to mitigate ignorance is to educate yourself. But if someone is too reluctant to do so for themselves, then you would either walk away or lose your patience with them.
3. You see more opportunities than others – Because you are open minded, you may see many more opportunities in situations than others. This attitude not only helps you survive but it also pushes you through tough situations. At the same time you may encounter animosity and jealousy from others because you have the ability to achieve success through hardships.
4. Your focus is on solutions and not problems – Strong-willed people are focused and they know how to get their things done. They do not tolerate any excuses from others who try to hinder their work. They dislike people who are weak and complaining and fail to manage things on their own.
5. You are a person of your word – Honesty is something that you value the most. You are straightforward who speaks their mind and is not afraid to come off as someone who is rude. You are not two-faced and tell people exactly what you think. You always stick by your word and never lie to a friend. Because of your personality traits you are choosy about your friends. You cannot be friends with anybody and everybody. You detest liars and dishonest people.
If it sounds like you or someone you know, then you must understand by now that people with strong personalities may come off as intimidating but that they are not cruel at heart. They do not try to dominate you in any way. They just cannot restrain their anger and frustration when they come across people who wear masks.

Harvard Research Team Reveals The SHOCKING ‘Superhuman’ Abilities Of The Tibetan Monks!

It’s fascinating to consider just how many ancient teachings tell us that humans have the capacity to gain extraordinary powers through various techniques. Some of these techniques, known as siddhis in the yoga tradition (from the Sanskrit, meaning “perfection”), include meditation, static dancing, drumming, praying, fasting, psychedelics, and more.
In Buddhism, for example, the existence of advanced powers is readily acknowledged; in fact, Buddha expected his disciples to be able to attain these abilities, but also to not become distracted by them.
A Professor of Buddhist and Tibetan Studies at the University of Michigan, Donald Lopez Jr., describes the many abilities ascribed to Buddha:
“With this enlightenment, he was believed to possess all manner of supernormal powers, including full knowledge of each of his own past lives and those of other beings, the ability to know others’ thoughts, the ability to create doubles of himself, the ability to rise into the air and simultaneously shoot fire and water from his body. . . . Although he passed into nirvana at the age of eighty-one, he could have lived “for an aeon or until the end of the aeon” if only he had been asked to do so.”
Again, there are numerous historical anecdotes of people with, as the Institute of Noetic Sciences calls them, ‘extended human capacities.” Since this article is focused on Buddhist monks, here is another example from the lore as written by Swami Rama in Living with the Himalayan Masters:
I had never before seen a man who could sit still without blinking his eyelids for eight to ten hours, but this adept was very unusual. He levitated two and a half feet during his meditations. We measured this with a string, which was later measured by a foot rule. I would like to make it clear, though, as I have already told you, that I don’t consider levitation to be a spiritual practice. It is an advanced practice of pranayama with an application of bandeaus (locks). One who knows about the relationship between mass and weight understands that it is possible to levitate, but only after long practice. . .
He (also) had the power to transform matter into different forms, like changing a rock into a sugar cube. One after another the next morning he did many such things. He told me to touch the sand – and the grains of sand turned into almonds and cashews. I had heard of this science before and knew its basic principles, but I had hardly believed such stories. I did not explore this field, but I am fully acquainted with the governing laws of science.
A lot of these stories exist within the literature and lore, but they are just stories, up to the readers to decide if they hold any actually credibility. Of course, one who subscribes to various ancient teachings would be more inclined to believe that these are more than just stories and tales. With science shedding light on the possible truths of ancient mysticism, it’s not implausible to think that, at one time, these abilities were more common knowledge.
Today, there have been a number of studies within the realms of parapsychology that have yielded statistically significant results, especially when examining the findings that’ve come from quantum physics. This is why Max Planck, the theoretical physicist who originated quantum theory, stated that he “regards consciousness as fundamental” and that he regarded “matter as derivative from consciousness.” He also wrote that “we cannot get behind consciousness” and that “everything that we talk about, everything that we regard as existing postulates consciousness.” And the Dalai Lama has supported this viewpoint:
Broadly speaking, although there are some differences, I think Buddhist philosophy and Quantum Mechanics can shake hands on their view of the world. We can see in these great examples the fruits of human thinking. Regardless of the admiration, we feel for these great thinkers, we should not lose sight of the fact that they were human beings just as we are.
R.C. Henry, Professor of Physics of Physics and Astronomy at John Hopkins University, explains things further:
A fundamental conclusion of the new physics also acknowledges that the observer creates the reality. As observers, we are personally involved with the creation of our own reality. Physicists are being forced to admit that the universe is a “mental” construction. Pioneering physicist Sir James Jeans wrote: “The stream of knowledge is heading toward a non-mechanical reality; the universe begins to look more like a great thought than like a great machine. Mind no longer appears to be an accidental intruder into the realm of matter, we ought rather hail it as the creator and governor of the realm of matter. Get over it, and accept the inarguable conclusion. The universe is immaterial-mental and spiritual.
For a selected list of downloadable peer-reviewed journal articles reporting studies of psychic phenomena, mostly published in the 21st century, you can click here.
HARVARD AND THE HIMALAYAN MONKS
During a visit to remote monasteries in the 1980s, Harvard Professor of Medicine Herbert Benson and his team of researchers studied monks living in the Himalayan Mountains who could, by g Tum-mo (a yoga technique), raise the temperatures of their fingers and toes by as much as 17 degrees. It is still unknown how the monks are able to generate such heat.
And it doesn’t stop there — the researchers also studied advanced meditators in Sikkim, India, where they were astonished to find that these monks could lower their metabolism by 64 percent.
In 1985, the Harvard research team made a video of monks drying cold, wet sheets with body heat alone. Monks spending winter nights 15,000 feet high in the Himalayas is also not uncommon.
These are truly remarkable feats and not the first time science has examined humans who can do extraordinary things.
If you’re further interested in this subject, I recommend reading Supernormal: Science, Yoga, and the Evidence for Extraordinary Psychic Abilities by Dr. Dean Radin, Chief Scientist at the Institute of Noetic Sciences.

How Your Body Tells You When You’ve Met Your True Love

The mystic ways of the universe are always intriguing and interesting for us, people. The creation of a perfect bond between two souls is a cosmic event and love is the greatest gift given to us, humans, to spread it and nurture it. Love creates the greatest things, love continues humanity and love make miracles happen.

However, they often say that you will just KNOW if you met the true love of your life. That is actually true, there are a couple of interesting signs that describe the physical manifestation of true, passionate love.
1. YOUR INTUITION TELLS YOU
Of course, this is your strongest weapon- your intuition will tell you many things, involving many aspects of your life. Our subconsciousness works 24/7 and the subliminal messages that our inner-self provide could be crucial. When you meet the love of your life, your intuition will certainly give you a sign.
2. YOU FEEL MOTIVATED
You suddenly feel up for anything! You become more reliable on yourself and you are not afraid to take risks or the first step ahead. The love inspires you to be the best version of yourself and to give them a true reason to become the best version of themselves too.
3. YOU ARE RELIEVED FROM PAIN
If you feel any pain, and this pain becomes relieved by the thought of your lover and your relationship with them, then it’s a clear sign that your partner affects you in the right way. This relief often comes from the euphoria you sense while you’re thinking about your love, which is just like a natural painkiller.
4. YOU FEEL CALM AND RELAXED
We can all agree that all relationships need work. On the other hand, when you meet your right person, everything just falls into place, and you don’t feel like you are trying too hard to save the relationship. That makes you feel calm and peaceful.
5. YOU ARE SEXUALLY AROUSED AND EXCITED
You understand that sex is one of the essential of the relationships. You become aware of this because you have a STRONG physical need for your partner and both your body and soul approve it.
6. YOU FEEL WARM
You feel the warmth of love when you are together with your partner. You feel strong affection and vulnerability- this is not a bad sign, but a clear sign that you feel comfortable and relaxed in their presence.
7. YOU FEEL MORE OPTIMISTIC THAN BEFORE
Your view of the world simultaneously changes. You become more optimistic and always look at the bright side of life.
8. YOU MAKE HEALTHIER CHOICES
You start making radical changes in your life- you start thinking more about your health and how to improve it. It’s really amazing how people quit smoking, drinking, drugs etc; after they meet the love of their life. Being in true, passionate love, like we already said, is a constant improvement to be the best version of yourself.
9. YOU EXPERIENCE GENUINE EMPATHY
You will feel a strong empathy like never before. The invisible bond forged between the two souls becomes stronger when you’re suffering or experience joy. You will start to share these moments emotionally and you will be amazed by how strong your emotional connection is with its strong effects on both of you.
10. YOUR CHEEKS FLUSH AND YOUR PALMS SWEAT
If your partner makes you feel excited and you’re looking forward to meeting them, then you can experience some symptoms on your body which are similar to anxiety; such as, for example, your heart beating faster, your hands sweating, or your cheeks flushing.

5 Ways To Become A Healer And Not Just A Pain Absorbing Empath


‘As empaths, we are not here to be sponges or enablers. We are here to be helpers, guides, and supporters.’
― Aletheia Luna, Awakened Empath: The Ultimate Guide to Emotional, Psychological and Spiritual Healing.
All human beings absorb and emit energy vibrations, knowingly or unknowingly. Rumi had addressed these centuries back, saying absorbing the energies of this world, one made it a burden; what’s important is one should rise above this world and its burden because another vision exists.
We all have empathic tendencies in us. Some of us know it, some of us, don’t. This justifies the anxiousness, the agony, the confusion and the series of mixed emotions we face while talking to someone or in some gathering.
Some of us have shielded ourselves from these vibrations, including our own while the energetically sensitive empaths have let themselves get affected by this world.

BEING AN EMPATH COMES WITH BOTH POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE SIDES.

The advantage of being an empath is one can detect the true form of energy within others. One can judge a person without proof. They can not only understand others, they can also heal both themselves and the world.
The dark side of being an empath is falling into a state of chaos. With too many energies around them, they are prone to get confused and often end up becoming victims to negative energies themselves.
But there are ways to deal with the darker side. As an empath, you need to utilize your heal potential so that you don’t hurt yourself in the process of healing the world.

HERE ARE  5 WAYS YOU CAN DO THIS:

1. BE CONFIDENT:

According to Barbara Marciniak, the moment you start etching your vibration on the universe, start emitting your own frequency rather than receiving, you start changing everything. In order to do this, you need confidence.
Believe in yourself. You have the power to change. Use it.

2. LET GO OF THE INSECURITY:

Insecurity is one of the major obstacles which prevent you from becoming a healer. You don’t need to please everyone to like you.
If they don’t like you, if they don’t reciprocate your energy, there’s absolutely no reason to focus on them. You might be alone but you are strong enough to deal with everything. If you depend on others, you lose your confidence.
In our subconscious mind, we have the tendency to be good to everyone irrespective of what kind of people they are, so that they will be good to us and it is their acceptance of goodness which makes us feel good.
Let go of this. All of us are not the same. People with negative energies will never reciprocate to good ones.

3. BE OPTIMISTIC; CONVERT OTHERS’ NEGATIVITY INTO POSITIVE ONES:

Empaths who are insecure tend to get dragged into the negative emotions of others. They absorb these emotions to feel the pain. But you need to be a healer.
So, instead of absorbing the pain, understand it and point out the positive sides of it. If something is not going right, that means there are other alternatives.
Find out the positive aspects of everything. It will not only make you feel good but also heal the other person too.

4. HELP OTHERS FIND OUT THEIR POSITIVE SIDES:

While it is important for you an empath to love yourself, it is also important that you make others love themselves too. That is how you can heal them.
Show them their positive sides, their talents; make them feel good about themselves so that they can radiate positive energy and learn to be optimistic too.

5. STAY CALM:

Don’t freak out no matter how stressful the situation is. Even if someone pulls you in a zone of tension, remember that you can heal everything, that things will be okay.
Don’t react or become anxious because this will create negative vibrations for you and create more trouble.
It’s not that difficult to become a healer. All you need to do is focus on yourself and the positivity of this universe. You are an empath. You can heal the world.

8 Twin Flame Stages – Are You Experiencing This?

THE LOVE EXPERIENCED BETWEEN TWO REUNITED TWIN FLAMES IS LIKE A WILD BEAST.

It can’t be captured. It can’t be contained. It can’t be tamed. Instead, it burns fiercely with an unquenchable form of intensity that is both exhilarating and formidable. The love experienced between twin flames is like Holy Fire: it burns you to ashes, but it also forces you into a new creature, like a Phoenix emerging out of the dust.
Although every twin flame relationship is unique and can’t be simplified, there is a general pattern that tends to emerge in these unions. As a person who went through a twin flame fusion, I know how overwhelming (and even terrifying) such an experience can be. I would have loved to read an article on common tell-tale twin flame signs when I was going through such a disorientating experience. But back then I knew nothing of twin flames or their significance. So here I would like to provide you with what I lacked: a general map that can help to guide you and pinpoint where you are right now.

8 MAJOR TWIN FLAME STAGES

Twin flames are said to be beings that aid our souls in finding completion. Ancient Greek philosopher Plato first created the idea of souls “split in two” that eternally yearn to find their “other halves.” These days we still carry around this idea of “find our other half,” but unfortunately we believe that it is absolutely imperative for us to find another person to be complete. Please keep in mind that while twin flames do help us to experience unconditional love and grow immensely as people, not all of us find our twin flames, and not all of us need twin flames to feel complete.
Also, it helps to remember that the degree to which you can experience harmony in your twin flame relationship is dependent on your level of soulful maturity. For example, two old souls will have a much easier time at “holding it all together” than two young souls.
So keeping this in mind, what are the eight major twin flame stages that you’ll likely experience in your relationship?

# STAGE ONE – YEARNING FOR “THE ONE”

In this preliminary stage, you have spent your entire life pining for “The One” that doesn’t yet exist in your life. You have this strange sensation that someone who is perfectly molded to you is “out there” but you don’t quite know where or when they will appear in your life. Although you ache for your twin flame, you have a feeling they will appear to you at some point.
This stage is also sometimes spent “preparing” for the arrival of the twin flame on an unconscious level. In my instance, I had to learn how to love myself before I met mine. For others, this stage of preparation involves the development of self-awareness, discovery, and understanding.

# STAGE TWO – GLIMPSING “THE ONE”

At some point, you will have a brief glimpse of your twin flame. Whether this is through a dream signal, or through a real-life meeting, suddenly the Beloved can be sensed. The result is profound. Wonder, joy, anxiety, and intoxication quickly ensue. For those cautious among us, a lingering sense of intense curiosity and desire to get to know the person better is the result. You don’t know what it is exactly, but this person is extremely special. Like me, you may even sense that this person will play an immensely important role in your life – even before you know them properly.

# STAGE THREE – FALLING IN LOVE

When you fall for this person, you will fall very, very hard. You will fall harder than you have ever fallen for anyone – and the impact will knock the breath right out of you. In fact, as you get to know your twin flame better, you will fall more and more deeply in love with them. As a result, you’ll find it hard to stand with two feet on the ground. You might feel disorientated, lovesick and “unlike yourself.” You may even try to resist the attraction, but eventually, you’ll accept the reality that you’re deeply and madly in love.

# STAGE FOUR – THE FAIRY-TALE RELATIONSHIP

As both of you eventually make your feelings known and enter into a relationship, life will feel like a fairy-tale. Your relationship with them will be perfect in every possible way. It will seem as though your twin flame fulfills every single need you have and everything you ever possibly wanted. This taste of “paradise” is what the matured twin flame relationship looks like after the next few stages of turmoil.

# STAGE FIVE – OUTER TURMOIL AND INNER PURGING

In this stage, there is trouble in paradise. As the ecstasy from the initial meeting period wears off, egos start to flare up. Suddenly differences in opinion, taste, and personality arise, and old core wounds emerge out of the gloom. While our twin flames share and mirror our deepest needs, desires, and dreams, they also tend to mirror our shadow selves. For example, if you are an emotionally repressed person, your twin flame will likely be emotionally explosive. If you tend to be arrogant, your twin flame will most likely be uncertain and quiet. In this way our twin flames challenge us, riling up our insecurities. This can be infuriating, devastating and very painful.
While all the arguing and fighting in this stage may seem disastrous, the truth is that it is necessary for our growth. Without being provoked, without seeing ourselves for who we “really” are, we live in illusion and fail to grow soulfully. But this is certainly hard to realize while you’re going through such turbulence in your relationship!

# STAGE SIX – THE RUNNER AND CHASER

As tensions mount it is common for one partner (or sometimes both) to emotionally or physically withdraw and “run” away, and another to pursue in a game of cat and mouse. Sometimes this involves emotional shut down and silent treatments. Other times this involves physical separation and in extreme cases, the permanent termination of the relationship. In this stage, twin flames experience a trial by fire. While some relationships last and are strengthened, others crumble to pieces. As I mentioned at the start, this is all dependent on each partner’s soulful maturity. Sometimes one partner leaves for many years and then returns, only to repeat the cycle once again. The chaser, on the other hand, tends to be the more mentally and emotionally mature partner of the two, trying to sort everything out and make amends.

# STAGE SEVEN – SURRENDER AND DISSOLUTION

Once the shadow of your relationship has been revealed, you may experience a period of surrender. After so much anguish, distress and provocation, you both begin to open up about your wounds and insecurities. In this stage it is common to experience a lot of ego dissolution and soulful expansion. As the ego relaxes, powerful lessons are learned about the nature of oneself and the nature of the “other.” As you begin learning how to work through your differences, the maturity of your relationship deepens and thus strengthens.
It is common to go through stages six and seven many times throughout your relationship.

# STAGE EIGHT – ONENESS

As the problems in your relationship become increasingly easy to deal with, you will enter a period of soul reunion. In stage eight it is common for you to both find a shared meaning, passion or cause that brings you a mutual sense of fulfillment. As the ego continues to relax, virtues such as forgiveness, understanding, empathy, and patience are learned. The more you both work on each issue that comes your way vigilantly, the more you experience the sensation of “Oneness,” or ego death.
source: lonerwolf 
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